TRUE
LEADERS ARE HONEST; THERE IS NO
MANIPULATION
OR DECEPTION IN THEM.
Adam was comfortable in
God’s company because he was just like Him. In effect, the nature of the
leadership spirit is to be comfortable in the presence of power, authority, and
might without being intimidated. When the leadership spirit is fully restored, you
revere and respect God and His authority but are never fearful in His presence;
you rejoice in His company. True leaders respect and honor authority but are
comfortable in its presence.
THE
SPIRIT OF LEADERSHIP IS AN
OTHERWORLDLY
CONFIDENCE
The restoration of the
leadership spirit also brings a level of confidence that is not common, and
that, in the eyes of many, seems to come from another world. Your thinking and
perception come from a higher plane. When Jesus was on trial before the Roman
procurator Pilate, the ruler asked Him, “Are you a king?” He answered, “My
kingdom is not of this world.” In other words, “My government is from another
place.” When a person rediscovers the leadership spirit, his confidence emerges
from an understanding of who and what he is and an awareness of his true
capacity and abilities. This natural confidence, grounded in a conviction of
self-discovery and self-awareness, is so sure that it is sometimes mistaken for
arrogance by the insecure.
THE
SPIRIT OF LEADERSHIP DEMONSTRATES
INTERNAL
SOUNDNESS AND SECURITY
When you rediscover the
leadership spirit, you love and are comfortable with yourself because you
become aware that your self-worth, self-esteem, and self-concept are the result
of the fact that you were made in God’s image and possess His qualities and
characteristics. Suddenly, you’re not trying to compensate for a sense of
inadequacy or inferiority, and you’re not trying to use or abuse people to make
yourself feel superior.
The self-esteem derived
from self-discovery sets you free from the assessments of others. When the
estimation of your personal value and worth is found in your realization that
you are in the “god-class,” in the sense of your being created in God’s image
and likeness (though not equal to Him), then the result is a high self-esteem.
This high self-esteem sets you free from the negative effects of other people’s
opinions. That is the reason that you can serve them as a servant leader. Even
if they mistreat you, it doesn’t affect your estimation of your value to them.
This is why Jesus Christ could say on the cross, “Father, forgive them, for
they do not know what they are doing.” He knew how valuable He was to them –
both in who He was and in what He was doing on their behalf. His self-esteem
was intact, right to the end.
Because a true
leadership spirit is borne out of a strong sense of self-worth and self-esteem,
leaders can be compassionate, patient, forgiving, and kind. They do not need to
gain their self-assessment from the people whom they are serving. They understand
that you cannot set people free until you are free from them. If you need the
people whom you are leading in order to feel important, then you cannot lead
them. Ultimately, they end up leading you.
This is why discovering
the leadership spirit is a prerequisite to serving. If you never discover who
you are, you will always misinterpret the attitudes and actions of others. You’ll
also underestimate everyone else – you’ll consider them less than what they
really are because you’ll want to feel that you are above them. You will “under-esteem”
them. However, you will treat people well and esteem them highly when you
rediscover the leadership spirit and are secure in yourself.
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